What is the mutual pining trope?
Mutual pining is dramatic irony as romance: the reader sees both sides of the longing while the characters each believe they're alone in it. Dual point-of-view books make the most of it.
Common variations
- Pining across a social divide
- Pining through letters
- Pining while fake dating
What to watch out for
- Misunderstandings that a single honest sentence would solve
Classic examples
- Persuasion by Jane Austen — free to read













































